On May 11th I turn 31. Wow, I cannot believe it. 31 years on this planet, I feel like the last 4 years have been awesome. Last year had some great moments, but I became burned out. I pushed myself pretty hard over the prior 3 years(2009-2012) and didn’t really know where to go in 2013.

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The biggest things that happened during my 30th year was that I completed my first triathlon and ran with my wife as she finished her first half marathon.

Each year throughout my journey I have set high goals to work towards to achieve.

2010: Peachtree Road Race (10K)

2011: Publix Georgia Half Marathon

2012: Publix Georgia Marathon, My First Tri and CF Cycle for Life 65 mile Ride.

And for the first time I found myself not knowing what to pursue next. To be honest I was mentally and physically exhausted after running my marathon and completing the triathlon.

I was tired of running. I had done CrossFit for 8 months in 2011-2012 and I loved it, but when we moved back to our home I stopped. I left a core group of my friends that pushed, motivated and held me accountable.

There was roughly a 6 month span where I went from exercising 6-7 days a week to only two. I was burned out. I lost focus. And in result some old habits returned and in my weight for the first time time in over 3 years crept up.

When I crossed the finish line March 2012 I was at the healthiest I had ever been at 215 pounds. Now I stand at 264 pounds, up 49 pounds.

But heres the thing I am motivated once again to fight back and strive to win. This was and is not a diet. It’s a journey and on it there are going to be battles to face and I am ready to face them head on. It’s not over by a long shot. Year 31 will be a great.

So here are my goals for May:

  • Buy Bodybugg to help me track better. (Done) I ordered it this morning.
  • Exercise 7 days a week, walking/running at least a mile a day.
  • Eat 1500 quality calories a day.
  • Strength train with Zack as his schedule allows, hopefully twice a week.
  • Cycle 1-2x/weekend

Thank you for being apart of my journey. I’m sorry if I let you down, but don’t count me out.

The journey continues on…

 Count it all joy, my brothers, when you meet trials of various kinds, for you know that the testing of your faith produces steadfastness. -James 1:2-3

 

 

Making Major Life Changes with Ben Dempsey

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I was recently interviewed by Jared Latigo for his podcast. Check it out and let me know what you think below!

What are you changing?

April 12, 2013 — 2 Comments

What is change? 

  • to transform or convert
  • to become altered or modified

Why is it so important?

  • It allows us to take a different path.
  • It challenges us to take a look at where you are at.
  • It helps to prevent you becoming stagnant and plateauing.

For me I try to take a proactive approach and assess where I am every month. Continue Reading…

My ChristWalk

April 11, 2013 — 2 Comments

Jesus has played a huge part of my journey. Prior to 2009 I went to church occasionally with my wife Elizabeth mainly because she encouraged me to do so. Growing up I went with my grandparents just about every sunday through middle school, but when I went into high school my church attendance declined.

The fall of 2008 my wife and I was invited to Eagles Landing FBC. We fell in love with the church, the first day there we decided to attend regularly. It wasn’t until Jan of 2009, that I truly accepted Christ as my lord and savior. I thought I did in the past, by saying a simple prayer when I was 11 but I believe I did it mostly to fit in and because of fear. I did not want to go to hell. I was not a bad kid, I didn’t get into trouble, but I wasn’t living for Christ and did not pursue a life for Him either.

But on Jan 18th my life changed forever. When I got saved I wanted to start walking with God, learning from the Bible and be a godly man/husband/father. On February 1st I was baptized:

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Continue Reading…

What is permission?  Permission is defined in the Merriam-Webster Dictionary as the following: the act of permitting, formal consent or authorization. 

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My good friend Andy Traub‘s business is the Take Permission Network. Where he challenges his readers to stop waiting and start shipping as Seth Godin says.

What make it so hard to not take permission?

  • fear of failure
  • fear of the unknown
  • accepting where you are

Continue Reading…